Do I love this way?
When Little Brother wants to play a game, and I selflessly agree to play, am I really being selfless if I’m the one who picks the game? Am I really being loving if I refuse to play a “little kid game” in favor of one that I will be more likely to enjoy?
If I were truly being selfless and loving, I would let him pick, wouldn’t I?
Could it be that all this time I’ve been fooling myself? That when I thought I was showing love, it was really a selfish love?
Is there even such a thing as selfish love?
Lord, help me to be truly selfless, truly loving – just as You are.